Code switching

Code - switching is fun. We automatically change small mannerisms depending on who we are with. Initially this might seem like a two faced thing to do but really and truly it's important to be adaptable and make an effort to connect to people in different ways instead of stubbornly clinging to your preferred or default personality. There is an element of people pleasing there with the way I code -switch. I have been warned that I sometimes take it too far and develop a personality purely based on what I think other people will enjoy. This is likely due to a fear of vulnerability and hyper self awareness (a term I made up) which would cause one to hide parts of their self that they think friends, acquaintances and others would judge. To counteract this. I'm deciding on the spot to share my blog. 

The best way I think to improve at something you've identified is just to find one of the most drastic yet non detrimental ways to improve on it and implement it immediately. It's likely that it will feel weird but struggle genuinely is growth.

I'm thinking of taking pictures ad adding them to each entry. I think I will.